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The 'Successful but Sabotaging' Pattern: Why High-Achieving Women Unconsciously Block Receiving
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

The 'Successful but Sabotaging' Pattern: Why High-Achieving Women Unconsciously Block Receiving

Many high-achieving women entrepreneurs experience a hidden pattern of self-sabotage. Achieving their goals yet unconsciously blocking themselves from fully receiving success, support, and love. This blog explores the psychological and nervous system roots of this pattern, signs to watch for, and practical steps to break free. Learn how embracing your inherent worth and cultivating the ability to receive can unlock greater business growth, deeper relationships, and a more abundant life.

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The Multitasking Myth: How 'Doing Everything at Once' is Costing You Your Marriage
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

The Multitasking Myth: How 'Doing Everything at Once' is Costing You Your Marriage

Multitasking might seem like a superpower, but it’s silently sabotaging your most important relationships. This blog reveals how the constant mental juggling praised in entrepreneurial culture is fracturing your connection, draining your nervous system, and costing you the intimacy, trust, and presence your marriage truly needs. Discover why multitasking isn’t a badge of honour, it’s a barrier to the life and love you’ve worked so hard to create, and learn how to reclaim deep presence in both business and relationship.

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The "Always On Call" Identity Crisis:
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

The "Always On Call" Identity Crisis:

Are you always available, yet never fully present? This blog explores the hidden cost of being “on call” 24/7 as a female entrepreneur and what happens when your business consumes your identity. From relationship strain to nervous system burnout, discover why reclaiming who you are outside your work isn’t a luxury it’s a necessity for true success.

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The Emotional Habits That Sabotage Connection:
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

The Emotional Habits That Sabotage Connection:

You’ve mastered business, but your relationship feels strained. This blog reveals how entrepreneurial defence mechanisms damage connection and how to shift from over-functioning into intimacy without losing your edge.

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Signs You've Become the Bottleneck in Your Business and Your Life
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

Signs You've Become the Bottleneck in Your Business and Your Life

If your team can't move without you, your business can’t grow beyond you. From 3 AM anxiety to vacation that isn’t a vacation, these seven signs reveal the hidden ways you're holding your business back and how to finally break the cycle with strategic boundaries that empower your team and reclaim your freedom.

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Why 'Good Girls' Make Terrible CEOs (And Why That's Costing You Everything)
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

Why 'Good Girls' Make Terrible CEOs (And Why That's Costing You Everything)

She followed all the rules. Was nice, accommodating, selfless. She kept the peace, overdelivered, undercharged, and rarely said no. And somewhere along the way, she lost herself. The “good girl” conditioning that once earned approval is now silently sabotaging her leadership, her relationship, and her business. Because here’s the truth: good girls make terrible CEOs. Not because they aren’t capable, but because they were never taught how to lead without guilt, people pleasing, or self abandonment.

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Why Some Women Can't Set Boundaries: The Attachment Theory Secret
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

Why Some Women Can't Set Boundaries: The Attachment Theory Secret

"I know what I need to do... but I just can't." If you’ve ever frozen in a moment where you should have set a boundary, even with all the scripts and self-awareness, you’re not alone. The truth is, boundary struggles aren’t about willpower. They're rooted in your attachment style and nervous system wiring. Until you address the hidden emotional blueprint driving your responses, no amount of strategy will stick. This blog reveals why some women literally can’t set boundaries and how to finally shift that pattern from the inside out.

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Why Your Partner Hates Your Business (And How Boundaries Can Save Both)
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

Why Your Partner Hates Your Business (And How Boundaries Can Save Both)

You didn’t build your business to destroy your relationship but the late nights, broken promises, and blurred boundaries are doing just that. This powerful guide walks you through the seven predictable stages of relationship breakdown for entrepreneurs and the exact boundary reset framework that can rescue both your love life and your bottom line.

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The Midnight Email Syndrome: Breaking the Always-On Entrepreneur Cycle
Candy Murrell Candy Murrell

The Midnight Email Syndrome: Breaking the Always-On Entrepreneur Cycle

It’s nearly midnight, and you’re still “just checking one more thing.” Your partner sleeps beside you while your inbox lights up your face and your nervous system. You promised this would stop, but here you are again. Welcome to Midnight Email Syndrome: the hidden epidemic burning out women entrepreneurs under the guise of success. This isn’t a time management problem it’s a boundary issue rooted in addiction, people-pleasing, and the illusion of control. In this blog, you’ll uncover the real cost of always being on, and learn a powerful 7-day system to reclaim your time, restore intimacy, and lead your business from a place of clarity, not cortisol.

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